In my opinion the appearance it's not important to me. The personality or how's acting a person are some stuffs where you are able to know a person. The most important thing it's the inside, the vulnerability who comes from the heart as you can possibly know the true facts of a person's feelings..This is the beautiful suggestion as far as I can see from someone or I can be able to comment about that. Never judge people or blame on them for nothing. The good people don't deserve those miserable things coming out. It's pointless.
